what actually kill you? what actually kill you is not the way people treat you what actually kill you is not the promise others can't keep what actually kill you is not silence from the other side what actually kill you is you. yes, you. your expectation of others. like all the cliche said, you can't expect somebody to treat you the way you treat them. because you are a total different heart, body, and soul. you can't control what you can't control. i'm not saying to have no expectation at all, let's be honest, it's one of the things to keep you going. but like one of my friend said to me, you can't let expectation from uncertainty controls and ruins you. rise above it, be the bigger person, and enjoy your ride!
no one deserves to be cheated on. that effed up thing could change the way you see yourself. "am i not enough? why am i never enough?" It definitely could damage your self worth. it's even traumatizing at some point. you would think that all people are the same, and there is no good girl/guy out there who'll get your back. well, the thing is, maybe they messed up because they're a mess. maybe they're once a victim and get insecure about commitment or trusting people in the first place. or maybe they're just a**holes, i don't know. good news for you: you've been set free, and only you can get your own back. and please note this, not everyone is the same, you're worthy of something better than this. just have a little faith and do your own inner job to detox the mess out. pray or wish the best for the cheater, because it would be hard to someday realize, that they loss the best thing they ever had.
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