Hypocritical Growing?

Changes. That's one thing for sure that will always happen on this planet.

As we growing up, certain aspects in our life is changing as well. Your body, your voice and even your mind is developing.

But now, if we are changing for the better, to be a rational adult, how could a change of thought easily judged by being hypocrite?

We all might have not really agreed upon something, talk to our friends about it, and in the end we do that thing. Doesn't people will see you as a hypocrite? But how it is a hypocrite, if what we do is actually a higher route from our place before?

Let's say we said we won't be friends with liar or envious people. But one day, when you know your closest friend is one of those thing, you try to forgive, accept and still befriend with them despite that was your biggest pet peeve.

Can you say it's a hypocritical thing to do?

Well, one thing Good Place serie has taught me: what matters the most is people's intention. I think if we changing for the better, to be an even better version of ourselves, that's called growing up. Vice versa, talk like an angel and you don't walk that talk... you know what's it called.

Maybe we have to be more careful of our words, for the biggest boomerang is actually our tongue.

And when it comes to neutral state, when you just changed your opinion about something, who has to say that you're a hypocrite over it? Aren't like our bodies; our surrounding and our input will change our mind sometimes? If you still say that is a hypocrite thing, then, aren't we all?